14 Responses to “Working Desire: 5 Tips for Maximizing Pleasure in Your Creativity”

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  1. Such good reminders, presented in a way that shows we have many more choices than might be thought. I completely agree that more work and taking pleasure in the work go hand in hand. Life is too short to spend doing what doesn’t self-satisfy.
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    Ami Mattison Reply:

    Very well put, Maureen. Life is indeed too short to not grasp one’s creative pleasure with both hands. Thanks for sharing!

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  2. wayne burns

    I really enjoyed reading the 5 tips…will look at it again…I really liked #5….hard to do but it needs to be done….enjoy reading and keeping up with you… KEEP WRITING ….blessings….bb

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    Ami Mattison Reply:

    BB! It’s great to see your comment! Yes, that #5 is much easier said than done, but as you suggest, it’s necessary. Thanks for stopping by and feel free to do so anytime. Blessings to you as well!

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  3. I think #5 is the one I have struggled with the most here. Blogging has helped me immensely here because I have to post on a regular basis and so can’t afford to spend weeks on a project – a week is about my upper limit – and so I’ve had to learn that ‘good enough’ is all that my writing needs to be most of the time and there’s no need to obsess over every syllable. Getting the words exactly right is pointless if the thought you’re trying to express is half-baked. Once that thought is sharp there are usually loads of ways you can express it and there’s rarely a ‘right’ way, a perfect way. This is not about lowering standards, it’s about setting realistic standards. The best example I can thing of is the very first sentence in my very first novel which because it was the first thing I always read got worked on more than any other sentence on the whole book and fifteen years later when it was finally published I looked back on my first draft and after every tweak I had made to it it was exactly the same as I first wrote it and I will never be happy with it. But then again I could be Grand in Camus’ The Plague and still working on that first damn sentence and nothing else.
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    Ami Mattison Reply:

    Ha, Jim! We could all still be writing that first sentence. Fortunately, most of us learn to move on. Your personal example speaks volumes to me about how we can tinker and tweak and basically be writing the same thing over and over again.

    But letting our work be good enough is a big challenge for most artists I think. Freelancing was a painful lesson in which I learned to simply let a piece go and let it stand on its own merit–good, bad, or ugly. And now blogging keeps me honest in this respect.

    And I’m so glad you mention how this issue isn’t a matter of lowering standards but a matter of simply being realistic about where one’s skills are at, the amount of time and energy available, what a piece actually requires, etc.

    Thanks for sharing your experience. As always, I find it illuminating.

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  4. These are great tips. #3 Take creative risks and #5 Learn what is good enough are my favorites and remind me that I don’t have to be perfect, I just have to tap into my inner resources and have fun in the process. Thanks for an inspirational post!
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    Ami Mattison Reply:

    Thank you, Kathleen! You’ve said it so well: we don’t have to be perfect! And I honestly believe that we won’t be able to get to our own brilliance until we let go of that perfectionism. Keep tapping those inner resources and definitely, have fun!

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  5. I do enjoy writing. The integrating of ideas that bounce around in my head in a creative way. I enjoy a challenge, that is thinking of creative ways to deliver my ideas and words. I love that writing has a beginning and ending. You know when it is complete, even if it gives you more ideas. I enjoy the process of learning to write. I’m thrilled to find something I enjoy and to grow it. Now, the obstacles – those are what I wrestle with!
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    Ami Mattison Reply:

    I know what you mean, Marci. Obstacles can indeed be major challenges to simply getting the work done and finding pleasure in it. And while many artists struggle with the same general obstacles such as balancing home life with creative work or finding enough time and energy, the sneaky thing about these obstacles is that they’re so individualized, suggesting they can only be resolved through individualized solutions.

    But I think focusing on our accomplishments and on what we do make possible for ourselves can be another way to put those obstacles into perspective and to find the motivation for figuring out viable solutions.

    Good luck! And thanks for sharing your experience!

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  6. I love the idea of taking Creative Risks, Ami. One of the reasons I love being a full-time writer is that I can take these risks and really enjoy them. I used to do this before, as a designer, but I always had to be aware of my client’s needs. Now I am my own client it’s only up to me… That’s great!
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    Ami Mattison Reply:

    Yes, Graham! Creative risk is what it’s all about for me too. The rewards are much greater when you take that leap (or small step) of faith and try something risky. Sounds like you’ve already taken a few risks in your career. Thanks for sharing your experience and good luck with your creative risk-taking!

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  7. Excellent post – with so many blogs out there on writing/creating it’s rare to come across something as unique and useful as this. A good reminder to find the joy in our creative work, without avoiding the challenges either. The best thing I’ve read on the subject for a long, long while. Thank you.

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    Ami Mattison Reply:

    Thank you, James, for your generous compliment! It makes me happy that you enjoyed the article and found it useful. It’s true we can’t avoid challenges, but then why would we? I think an intrinsic part of the joy of creative work comes from confronting, negotiating, or overcoming obstacles. Challenge makes for thrill and risk and ultimately more pleasure! Thanks for sharing!

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